If you’ve asked yourself that more than once… you’re in the right place.

Your Attitude is the foundation you operate from—especially when things get hard

It’s the part of you that:

• Tries to control when things feel out of control

• Struggles emotionally when connections feel risky

• Performs and pleases to avoid conflict or rejection

These are patterns, not flaws. And they’re predictable.

• The foundation/mindset you operate from (Attitude) 

"A" is our Attitude developed by age 8 with heavy emphasis on the people who raised us or in some cases abandoned us.  Attitudes are the make up of hardwiring and soft wiring.  Hard wiring was from God at birth and soft wiring is from parental background those first 8 years.  (We call it the 50%).

• Preconceived thoughts revealed under pressure (Beliefs)

"B" is Beliefs that we form during those 8 years, plus all the beliefs we learn by the time we are 80, if we make it that long.  Parents, schools, churches, associates, government, media, etc.  have a major impact on our ongoing beliefs.  (We call it the 30%).

• The behavior you keep repeating (Choices)

"C" are the Choices we choose to do each day of our life.  Our relationships with others (including God), our health, our money, our career, our education, our family issues, our hygiene, our self-reflection.  (We call it the 20%).

• "Today's Choices are Tomorrow's Reality" (Destiny)

"D" - We believe that the 80/20 rule is alive and well. You cannot fix these issues with medication, more leadership training classes, and motivational speakers.  We must go back to the beginning to the day of birth and look at our journey to the present in order to assess our current reality.